From lost and confused to more trusting of inner compass

Before I felt lost, confused, isolated, and fearful. Now I'm feeling more trusting of my inner compass, I'm connecting with God in ways I hadn't considered before, and I'm feeling more trust that my faith journey is a good thing and God is with me in it.

This program altered the course of my faith journey in crucial ways. I no longer feel like the rug has been pulled out from under me and I have a foundation to stand on in which I can grow and expand in beautiful ways.

From avoidant and stuck to glowy possibility

Before I felt very alone, hopeless, avoidant, and stuck. Now I am feeling more hopeful, more connected to others, and just a general sense of glowy possibility. I feel more freedom and permission. I feel like maybe there could still be space for me in the church. It feels good.

This is a wonderful course for people who feel stuck somewhere in the middle. It is faith affirming in that it helps you develop a more mature and expansive faith. It is realistic in grappling with the harms and issues within the Church. It will empower you to carve a way forward for yourself.

- From a mental health therapist who has taken Becky's LDS faith journey program

From anxious and guilty to confident and life-giving

I've grown so much. I've gone from feeling anxious, guilty, and alone to affirmed and loved to now recognizing areas where I can approach sticky situations with more love and maturity than I have before. I'm seeking connection with God in new ways and feeling more confident in finding my personal path forward.

This group has been life-giving. I'm so glad I did this. I was really needing a safe place to process my shifts in faith in an environment that doesn't lean toward anger. I've learned so many practical tools to help me move forward in the direction of an expanding faith.

Extremely helpful, answer to prayer

Before I felt alone, confused and unsure of how I was going to be able to move forward honoring my inner compass and being in the church, but now I have more hope for myself for the future. I trust God, they trust me and I trust myself. I also feel more connected with my Heavenly Parents and the Savior.

This faith journey program has been extremely helpful. Becky has put into words the feelings I have been feeling in my journey. Learning about the stages of faith development is something I keep coming back to and it has helped me frame how I feel. Becky also encouraged us to find new and authentic ways to connect with God. These classes have given me hope that I can continue in my faith journey in the church, which is my goal right now.

I had been praying for a way to stay in the church and have integrity in my feelings and viewpoints. This program has been an answer to prayer. I feel lighter and like I can show up to church and my calling, more confident in myself and belief. I aim to be an ally for people who may be going through a faith growth journey.

-Erika H.

From painful, scary, isolating to more light and growth

This program has been incredibly transformative for me, and I feel so much more equipped to navigate my faith journey moving forward. Becky is a great coach and wonderful individual who shares her knowledge, passion, and love with you.

One of the most eye-opening things I learned was about the messy middle of transformations. I learned about the thought cycle, which is the connection between thought, emotion, action, and result. This helped me understand why it can be so difficult to change, especially when it comes to faith.

Another important topic we covered was how to connect with God during a faith crisis. We discussed how it can be difficult to go through a faith crisis because of things like grief, trauma, and betrayal, and the tension between connection and authenticity. It also talked about how it can be isolating to go through a faith crisis. Before I felt frustrated, upset, angry, isolated and sadness. Now I feel more connected with the godhead because of some of the new resources and tools shared.

Space to process, validated in a healthy way

Before I knew I wasn't wanting to leave the church but didn't know how I would stay. I was so hurt and angry about so many things and always seemed traumatized be each new thing I learned that rocked me more.

Now I feel like I have examples of what staying can look like after this faith journey eruption, it seems more possible as I see others navigating it. I'm not as angry anymore because I've had space to process those things and have felt validated in a healthy way.

Becky didn't try to fix or push me, just support

A faith crisis is not something someone wakes up and goes in search of. It's raw, painful, heartbreaking and messy. Having a community to process this with and provide support has given me healthy options to manage my anger and pain, while also receiving much needed love and validation.

It doesn't make staying in the church easy but it's given me the tools to be able to see a way to stay and still feel honest and authentic and intentional about my choice. I loved this program. I loved the people in it with me, I loved Becky and felt her genuine goodness. I did not ever feel like she was trying to fix me or push me to decide or believe a certain thing. I just felt supported. It was wonderful.

Enjoyed the tools, meditations, coaching calls, community and support

I loved the tools Becky presented that I can utilize. The unplug meditation was probably my favorite. I enjoyed the upbeat and accepting space Becky created for us. The coaching calls were especially uplifting for me. I enjoyed the community that was built and the beautiful support and understanding given by everyone.

More confident in own journey and authority, highly recommend

Before I felt stressed and alone, and now I have felt my stress relaxing and feel more confident in my own journey, my own authority.

Becky’s program is extremely helpful if you are feeling the pain of a faith crisis/expansion and don’t know how to handle it gracefully while also staying connected to the church. During this program I was able to finally name and articulate the struggle points and why they are a struggle, and learn tools to move through them. It was also so helpful to connect with others, hear their stories, and realize this expansion is actually part of faith growth and a good thing. I made a few new friends as well, which was wonderful. I highly recommend doing this program if you are wanting tools and support in your faith growth journey as a member of the LDS church.

I loved the coaching calls

I loved the coaching calls. I'd describe them as a chance to listen in on a mini therapy or coaching session to help someone work their way through a specific problem. There would be explaining, listening and often role-play to help the person practice working on a resolution. I was always able to think of ways the tools Becky offered could be applied to my own struggles and relationships.

Reframe from faith crisis to expansion

After this program, I feel more calm about the changes in my faith. I can see how normal it all is and that there are healthy ways to get through it. This program helped me recognize which skills I need to develop in order to have greater peace as my beliefs continue to evolve. In particular, learning to trust myself and to reclaim my own authority are essential. I realized how much I have relied on the standards of other people to determine whether I was acceptable to God.

Going through a faith crisis is hard enough. But it doesn't have to be as lonely or scary as it often is. Becky can help give you the tools to reframe this faith crisis into a faith expansion. She can help you reclaim your personal authority and learn to navigate important relationships that may be affected by your changing beliefs. As Becky says, there's no one right way to navigate a faith journey, but there are some ways that are healthier than others.

I felt seen, validated, and accepted

Becky's program holds beautiful space and gives excellent tools! She is an amazing coach. If you're in a place of confusion and you need some clarity, validation, and community this is the place for you.

Becky has a talent for bringing people together regardless of differences, and she makes it possible for everyone to feel safe. The stories, information, tools, and even the group she brought together helped me feel seen, validated, and accepted. Remember it doesn't have to be a faith crisis, if can be a faith journey or faith upgrade.